***Disclaimer: The information I have on the crafted stuff is from MoM/ early SoM. I know there's been crafting updates, so many of the crafted pieces may not be as good anymore.***
The problem is most gear is either power or morale, not both. Honestly, you don't need that much power as long as you stack some icpr relics. If you have emeralds of the verdant glen, then you're in very good shape. Otherwise, the other icpr relics might cost you in other stats.
OK. First, power. It's really difficult to have a lot of power without the Armour of the Lady's Favor set. Since you mentioned that you don't want to raid, that won't be an option. The Annum set gives the most power out of any set, but you'll lose even more morale than the hele set. I don't recommend it. Here are some armor pieces with a lot of power:
Recommended:
Moria leggings - 170 power. I highly recommend these. Although it gives less power than the Epic Quest legs, it gives nice stats as well. 105 morale isn't too bad either. You'll lose 10 morale and icmr, but you'll gain 21 might and fate at the cost of 33 agi. These legs will give allow you to switch out of some power gear for morale.
Other options:
Mirkwood crafted chest, boots, shoulders - 176 power. I personally don't like the Mirkwood set. It gives good morale and power but you'll be sorely lacking in stats. Take them if you really want to swap stats for power.
Again, I recommend you lose power for ICPR and build on morale. But it's your toon, so the decision is up to you. I'll just give you some options.
Other Pieces:
Recommended Helm:
Halbarad's Helm: Has 400 morale and 63 power. Good stats as well. It's a decent helm for the moors.
Moria helm: Has 400 morale, but no power. Good stats. Has incoming heal too.
Hele helm: 230 morale/ 69 power. Great stats. Nice inc. heal bonus. Great for tanking.
DG helm: 330 morale/ no power. Stats almost as nice as Hele. At one point, I had this rated higher than any other helm. I don't like it so much anymore.
Other options:
Mirkwood crafted: 412 morale/ no power. Again, stats are sorely lacking. Comes with small inc. heal
Recommended Chest:
Loth crafted Chest: 200 morale/ 60 pwr. In terms of stats, it's the best chest in the game. Good overall piece. You will lose power from your current chest, but you will get 20 will and fate.
Other options:
Mirk crafted: 215 morale/ 176 power. Same story (good on the outside, not so great on the inside, although it's one of the better pieces from the set)
Moria: 205/82
Recommended gloves:
Loth crafted: 276?/? high morale, decent stats, good for pvp
Epic gloves: 105/63. decent all around gloves because it gives back power.
Hele gloves: 115/0. Great stats. They're good gloves but the lost some value with the new epic gloves. The loth gloves give more morale and the Epic gloves helps with power issues, putting these gloves in an awkward position.
Other options:
Mirk crafted: 302/0.
Recommended boots:
Hele boots: 230/97. Great boots. Period.
Loth crafted boots: 200/60. Has better stats, but I prefer hele (remember 2 hele pieces net you 23 extra vit)
Other options:
Moria: 200/79
Mirk crafted: 215/176
Recommended shoulders:
Hele: I'm recommending this because you want two hele pieces for the bonus. If you have another hele piece besides the boots, (helm or gloves) you may not need it. They are very nice, though, imo.
Other options:
Mirk crafted: 105/176
As for jewelry,
NCF - earrings
Bracelets - Glowing Aureate for ICPR, Brawlers for morale
Rings - Brawlers for morale, Ranger's (mirk crafted) for power
Pocket - up to you, but Sailor's Charm is nice
The real difference maker is in the relics. You can cap melee defense, boost inc heal, add crit defense, add morale, and stack ICPR all at once. Look carefully at the options you have.
It's too hard to tell you what piece to switch out for what because you're wearing rather unconventional stuff (like mini bracelets and what not. People usually don't worry about tactical class gear until they cap mi/agi/vit, which you haven't done). I decided to you give you some options so that you can figure it out for yourself (sorry I'm not going to sit around with your build and min/max

). When your build is more complete, it'll be easier for us to tell you what to switch as some pieces are clearly better than others (and not just different). This is gear for non-raiders. Hope this helps.